Working with animals on an emotional level is something that cannot be overstated. Especially in this day and age of rescue animals, puppy mills, hoarders, and over-run rescues, many times the animals that we bring into our homes come to us with a past that we may not know much about and have faced trauma before ever entering our loving homes. And even if not, there are still a host of emotional needs that may be present in our animals. For instance — do you have any pets that get nervous when you leave? Or during a thunderstorm? Finding ways to support our animals emotionally is one of the best ways that we can love them!
Here are some recommendations from the ADR—
“It is always recommended to separate an animal from others when working on emotional clearing. This would mean separating a dog from other dogs or cats in the household, or separating a horse away from herd mates. Imagine yourself going through an emotional release. We usually are not very comfortable doing this in front of others. In the animal kingdom — the odd ball is often shunned, rejected, or even attacked for bringing attention to the pack, herd, or flock. We would not want to create this experience for any animal we are working with.”
And it makes sense when you think about it — think about times in your own life when you are experiencing intense emotions. Often, that is not something you want to go through in front of a large crowd of people. It makes our animals feel so much more comfortable when we are working with them intimately.
Also, something that is important to note when using oils on our animals for emotional support — we may use a specific oil anticipating a specific response in our animals, but it may not be what it actually ends up being. We as humans often project our feelings and desires onto our animals, but we must remember that they have their own unique personalities and dispositions, and as we use oils, we may see them become more of who they actually are instead of more of who we may wish them to be.
Here are some common methods for emotional support with animals:
Nightly diffusion — this is exactly what it sounds like — diffusing oils around our animals during the night as they (and we) sleep! Placing a diffuser in the space where the animals sleep and diffusing 1-4 drops of oil to start is a great way to target emotional support. In this instance, you generally want to have the diffuser going all night long. You can use the same oil every night or use different oils on a rotation.
Rotational diffusion — this method of diffusion around animals is to target immediate emotional support needs — for instance, right after a puppy is rescued from a puppy mill. It means that every hour to two hours, a new emotional support oil is placed in a diffuser, constantly rotating different scents (up to about seven different oils) to make sure to target all different areas of emotional support.
Petting application — this goes back to using oils topically on our animals, as already talked about earlier. You can do this nightly, hourly, daily, monthly — your choice based on your animals. This is a great way to not only be present with your animal, hopefully offering them more comfort, but of making it a calming time as you use oils around and on them.
Also, did you know that you can do the raindrop technique on your animals? There are different methods for doing so based on different types of animals, but this is a wonderful way to bring emotional release and support to our animals. As someone who has rescued animals from shelters who have beaten and abused before coming into my home, I cannot say enough about using oils for emotional support!
Especially when they first come home — it is scary for them. A brand-new environment, and they don’t know what they are going to get. It helps to support the adjustment and brings calming as they learn what it is like to be loved for the first time. And there is nothing so amazing as seeing an animal be changed because of love!!
Here are some favorites to use for emotional support on animals — Peace & Calming,
Believe, Valor, Grounding, Joy, Frankincense, Palo Santo (this is a favorite for our animals!!), Trauma Life, and SARA — and of course, there are so many more out there!!
Have you tried any oils to emotionally support your animals? What are your favorites?